On my way to the Coke Zero machine, the good people down the hall at The Week asked me a question. "Do any of your readers have juicy personal dilemmas a good advice columnist could help solve?"

Someone must, right?

If that someone is you, email your issue to ToughLove@TheWeek.com, where Starshine Roshell (her real name) will gladly assist you. Here are some of the other questions she's answered.