Let's keep this simple, dude. First, here are all the times the word "dude" is spoken in Seasons 1-5 of Lost (yes, Season 6 is missing). I miss Hurley.

And now, all the "dudes" in The Big Lebowski. Note that there are some f-bombs in here:

Wait, okay, one more. Here's a mega-supercut showing great "dudes" in recent film history (with some duplication of The Big Lebowski above):

Dude, what's up with the word "dude?" Read up, dude.