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The 'Stand by Me' Scene Rob Reiner Said Hit Surprisingly Close to Home

"'Stand by Me' was the first thing I did that was purely an extension of myself, and that meant a lot to me.”
Jerry O'Connell And Corey Feldman In 'Stand By Me'
Jerry O'Connell And Corey Feldman In 'Stand By Me' | Archive Photos/GettyImages

It's been forty years since Stephen King's novella, The Body, was adapted into the film Stand by Me, but the story still holds up as one of Rob Reiner's greatest. The emotional depth portrayed by the teenage actors and written into the script made the 1986 film a masterful work of art, but that depth didn't come only from acting talent. It came from personal experience.

Rob Reiner directed and wrote the script for Stand by Me, digging into his childhood and the relationship between him and his father to do so. One scene was especially emotional, hitting Reiner and the actor playing the main character, Wil Wheaton, right in the heart.

River Phoenix And Wil Wheaton In 'Stand By Me'
River Phoenix And Wil Wheaton In 'Stand By Me' | Archive Photos/GettyImages

Stand by Me

Though Stephen King is known as the master of horror, his novella The Body is a coming-of-age story that explores death, grief, and family conflict. Rob Reiner was known as a comedian, but he proved his skill in drama when he brought King's story to life by staying true to heavy themes.

Stand by Me follows an adult Gordon "Gordie" Lachance (Richard Dreyfuss) as he reminisces about a summer adventure with his friends when he was twelve. The four boys, Gordie (Wil Wheaton), Chris (River Phoenix), Vern (Jerry O'Connell), and Teddy (Corey Feldman), decide to find the body of a boy who went missing. They each struggle with dysfunctional families, but they learn to lean on each other as they deal with all that life has thrown at them.

Gordie's Scene

The most emotional scene of Stand by Me, for director Rob Reiner, was after the boys find the body of the missing boy. Gordie's (Wheaton) older brother, Denny (John Cusack), had recently died, and the sight of a dead body caused him to break down in tears. He confessed to Chris (Phoenix) that his dad loved Denny but hated him.

"He hates me! Oh God, he hates me!" sobbed Gordie, and Chris responded with, "He just doesn't know you." Reiner admitted to tearing up himself as he wrote the scene. He knew exactly how being misunderstood by his father felt, the same as hatred to a young boy. Reiner said that as an adult he knew his father loved him, but he distinctly related to Gordie in that moment.

Rob Reiner
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Rob Reiner

Reiner's father, Carl Reiner, was one of the most famous comedy actors of his time. Rob Reiner grew up in that shadow, trying to make a name for himself. But his father just didn't get him. When comedy writer Norman Lear told Carl that his son was funny, the elder Reiner was shocked. He didn't see it.

Rob Reiner was very good at comedy, even if his father couldn't see it, but Stand by Me was the first film where he felt like he was finally coming out of his father's shadow. That might have been why he chose to direct the dramatic coming-of-age tale. In an interview, Reiner said, "Stand by Me was the first thing I did that was purely an extension of myself, and that meant a lot to me.”

Wil Wheaton
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Wil Wheaton

Reiner wasn't the only one who related to the heartbreaking scene. Wil Wheaton has said that he felt he was able to bring Gordie to life because they were so similar. He has been outspoken about the emotional manipulation and abuse he suffered from his parents, forcing him to be an actor.

Wheaton said that he could play Gordie because he "was Gordie" at that time, feeling like his father hated him and loved his sibling instead. Rob Reiner saw the sadness and isolation in Wheaton's eyes and knew he was perfect for the role that hit so close to home for him as well.

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