5 Rules for Regifting (Without Getting Caught)

Your sister-in-law gave you a pair of beautiful statement earrings for your birthday—but you only wear studs. Your mom gifts you a gorgeous vase every Christmas, and you literally cannot fit another one in your cabinet. These trinkets are just dying to be regifted so they can be put to good use, right? Right?

Absolutely, said lifestyle and etiquette expert Elaine Swann. “Regifting is perfectly acceptable if done correctly,” she told Mental Floss in 2016. With gift-giving season upon us, here are her cardinal rules for recycling a present without looking like a cheap jerk. 

1. The item must be new.
2. The gift must have value.
3. The item must be re-wrapped.
4. The re-gifted object must move on to a new social circle.
5. You must not lie about the re-gift.

The item must be new.

The item should be less than a year old and in its original packaging, Swann said.

The gift must have value.

No, you may not regift that canvas tote bag from the Radiological Society of North America’s annual meeting. If you or the initial gift-giver didn’t pay for it, you can’t give it to someone else. The only exception is if a piece of swag is high-quality and has meaning for the receiver. Swann recalled that she once received an “Oprah”-engraved keychain when she attended a show taping; she gave it to her mom, a huge fan. “Although it was free, it was not your run-of-the-mill keychain,” she said.

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The item must be re-wrapped.

This is perhaps where people fail most frequently. Frantically regifting at the last-minute because you forgot to buy something is a recipe for disaster. Take 15 minutes to ensure all old wrapping and name tags are removed, and splurge on a pretty bow or cute gift bag.

The re-gifted object must move on to a new social circle.

Swann remembered a friend who didn’t like a wedding present from her aunt, so she regifted it—to another aunt, the original giver’s sister. Oops. To avoid overlap, consider Swann’s method. She keeps a bin in her closet for gifts that can be reused, along with a notebook in which she records the date she received an item, and from whom.

You must not lie about the re-gift.

If you are caught, just tell the truth. You can put a positive spin on it (“I really appreciate the sweater you gave me, but my best friend looks much better in coral”), but you cannot pretend it didn’t happen. “They might be a little sore, but lying about it will always make it worse,” Swann said. Own up to it and move on.

A version of this story originally ran in 2016; it has been updated for 2025.